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The Land Between

Keeping Faith on the Way to Somewhere

By Jeff Manion

 

Ernest Hemingway’s short story “The Battler” begins with young Nick Adams inspecting his wounds. He’s just been thrown from a moving train.

“Come here, kid,” the brakeman had said, “I got something for you.” And then—wham!—Nick’s on his hands and knees beside the track. As he stands, the lights of the train caboose disappear around a curve and leave him in darkness. He’s bruised, scraped up, and stranded in the middle of nowhere.

This is the image that comes to mind when I think of people I know who have received disruptive news that has radically reshaped their lives, leaving them dazed and stranded.

We always tend to remember where we were when the news came.

“Your position has been eliminated.”

“The tumor is malignant.”

“Your mother and I are getting a divorce.”

“There’s been a terrible accident.”

“Dad’s had a stroke—how soon can you get to the hospital?”

“I just don’t love you anymore.”

With a single sentence, we’re thrown out of normality and suddenly find ourselves going nowhere in a dark new world. We’re hurled into the world of the unemployed, or the land of the suddenly single, the valley of grieving, the new language of chemo, the second home of nursing facilities. In our more confident, faith-filled moments, we know that at some point, we’ll regain our footing and find some kind of balance in a new normal, but for now, we’re in between and have no idea how to navigate the terrain. This is “the land between.” We’re no longer where we were, and don’t yet know where we’re going or will actually end up.

Wandering the Wilderness of Complaint

The Israelites’ desert wanderings between Egypt and the Promised Land provide insight into the unique challenges and opportunities that accompany the tough transitions of our own undesired seasons. Having been delivered by God from four centuries of slavery, the children of Israel make their way to Canaan, the land promised to their ancestors Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. But their journey is hardly straightforward—in fact, they travel in circles for decades.

In Numbers 11, they’ve been trudging through the desert for two years, and things are already not going well. God has provided sustenance in a new food He calls manna, which arrives daily with the morning dew. The Israelites are suffering, but not from hunger; what they perceive as the drudgery of eating the same thing day after day and week after week is turning into riotous complaint (Num. 11:5-6). Waves of disappointment flood the camp as grumbling spreads from tent to tent and family to family. “If only we had meat to eat!” they moan. “We remember the fish we ate in Egypt at no cost—also the cucumbers, melons, leeks, onions and garlic. But now we have lost our appetite; we never see anything but this manna!” (Num. 11:4-6 NIV).

Do you hear the longing for what was known and predictable? Their bitter complaint was about more than cafeteria food. It was about their weary existence. In a sense, they were saying to God, “We were better off in slavery. We were better off without You.” A serious charge.

It’s easy to criticize the Israelites’ ungratefulness, but complaint is a real snare for any of us traveling through life-altering transition. Take a moment to examine your own heart. As you journey through the “land between,” what’s wearing you out? What’s eroding your energy and draining your joy? As you hear the voices swell into a choir of the discontented saying, “We’re sick of this!” is it possible that your own voice is rising with theirs? Where might honest frustration be morphing into the spirit of complaint and taking up residence in your heart?

“I’m sick of enduring wave after wave of tests without a clear diagnosis!”

“I’m sick of being asked what line of work I’m in and fumbling for an answer!”

“I’m sick of waiting for this house to sell!”

“I’m sick of living in my in-laws’ basement!”

“I’m sick of visiting a mother who repeatedly asks who I am!”

“I’m sick of this manna!”

The heart drifts toward complaint as if by gravitational pull—after all, protest seems a reasonable response to a series of disappointing events. Generally, you don’t have to extend an invitation for grumbling to show up. It arrives as an unwelcome guest. You return home from yet another frustrating day to discover that disgruntlement has moved in, unpacked its luggage, started a load of laundry, and is rooting through your fridge. Even as you try moving its bags to the curb and changing the locks, it crawls back in through the basement window. Complaint is a master at resisting eviction.

While negative attitudes expel positive ones, the opposite can also be true. To discourage grievance from taking root in our hearts, we can invite another guest to move in: trust. When we make the choice to place our confidence in God amid life’s disappointments, complaint has far less space to maneuver. While attempting to unpack for an extended stay, it discovers that faith has taken all the drawers in the guest room and already occupies the empty seat at the table. Trust and complaint are incompatible roommates. One inevitably pushes the other out, depending on who is made to feel more at home.

Missing the Journey—and the Destination

The tragedy of the Israelites’ reaction is that it undermined God’s initial purpose for the wilderness experience. He was attempting to forge a relationship of trust with them. As they escaped Egypt, they were more fully acclimated to the world of their captors’ idolatry than they were influenced by the character and presence of the Lord.

As we watch them enter the desert, we shouldn’t imagine a neatly ordered multitude of mature followers of Yahweh. They are more of an unruly mob of people who had gotten used to slavery and survival as a way of life. At least their Egyptian taskmasters were predictable; the former slaves often resented Moses’ leadership, which involved last-minute or mysterious directions from an unseen God. And so, with all the hardships that came up on the journey, they longed to return to Egypt. To actually become the people of God, the Israelites desperately needed the spiritual transformation that life in the desert would achieve. Their wilderness experience was intended to shape and refine them into a community of trusting followers who would be prepared to enter the Land of Promise.

While the “land between” is prime real estate for trust to grow, it’s also a space in which we can become resentful and cynical people if our choices are unguarded. The wilderness where faith can thrive is the very desert where it can dry up and die.

In painful times, you frequently hear the saying Time heals all wounds. But I don’t find this statement always to be true. Some people do heal over time, while others allow their wounds to fester and then poison their hearts. Time spent in such inhospitable surroundings usually forces us to choose one way or the other. The challenging conditions of that environment can strengthen us and make us more authentic and reliant on the Lord so we eventually emerge prepared for what lies ahead. Or it can become a desert of endless wandering where our faith dries up, if we let it. The habits of the heart that we foster—our responses and reactions—are where our choice begins.

As you journey through chaos, uncertainty, or pain, ask yourself, What is the Lord desiring to cultivate in me as a result of this wilderness? The seemingly barren land in which you feel lost or deeply wounded is also fertile ground for your spiritual transformation—and for God’s miraculous grace to be revealed to you and through you in magnificent ways.

The choice is yours.

 

Jeff Manion is the author of The Land Between: Finding God in Difficult Transitions.

Copyright 2014 In Touch Ministries, Inc. All rights reserved. www.intouch.org. In Touch grants permission to print for personal use only.


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  • November 27, 2012 07:37 AM

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    Thank you so much for this encouraging message. My husband and I have been trying to sell our house for the past year and there are moments when I get discouraged about it. I then stop and think about all God has done for me over the years and know He has some sort of plan going on with this house as He had with every other issue that has ever come up. It always ends in providing the best for me and I have to remember that.
  • June 04, 2011 01:10 AM

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    very nice.. this is very,very true.. awesome,beautiful article, thanks for sharing this to us..
  • February 15, 2011 07:21 AM

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    Lord I love your truths! They are perfect ALL THE TIME! Help me to turn from doubt and move joyfully into trusting you. To KNOW that you are who you say you are and to know that you WILL do what you said you would do.
  • February 04, 2011 08:14 PM

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    Love Love Love this... perfect timing for me and so on target to my mindset ! thanks for sharing
  • January 30, 2011 07:04 PM

    by ann1951

    Very informative and great advice from God's word....Thanks for sharing !!
  • January 30, 2011 08:10 AM

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    I love this reading!
  • January 29, 2011 09:05 PM

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    I'm in a desert I never saw coming and wasn't prepared for in my job, my health and as a result my finances. This article helped calm me down, helped me to understand why the Israelites stayed in the desert for 40 years and hopefully, understand what I need to do to keep my focus on God. We make it hard, God is there and he is waiting for us. Thank you,
  • January 27, 2011 03:29 PM

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    Dear Dr. Stanley, I truly praise God for your ministry, it helps me more then I can ever put into words. The "Land Between", has been such a blessing to me and my whole church.Thank you for your sincere devotion to Gods word, and teaching me to do the same. I truly Thank You. Jeanette (San Diego Ca.)
  • January 27, 2011 10:05 AM

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    Thank you for this, whomever you are.
  • January 16, 2011 12:25 AM

    by kurtnivy

    Wow this is exactly what I think I needed to hear. I am in a valley, dry area, or wilderness AGAIN in my life. I was less than a month ago so devoted to God I was like Peter thinking I had finally made it and wouldn't turn away. And today I felt myself slipping away and thoughts of giving up or looking for another way. "Keeping My Faith On The Way To Somewhere" has spoke to me. I been in this spot before and never really escaped it. I think it's because God is bringing me back to this place to not give up on me learning the things He wants me to learn. I sure hope I learn them this time:) I guess I can say I am sick of failing. So I will try to look at things with a thankful and trusting mind.
  • January 13, 2011 03:34 AM

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    God always offers excellence! Yet, we people ignore them all, and we choose to live and to decide for our own without His guidance. Live by faith and trust Him that He will lead you to the journey of success! God bless Dr. Stanley.
  • January 12, 2011 09:08 PM

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    This is a wonderful piece of writing. It is helping a friend who is living in the land between. Thank you.
  • January 12, 2011 04:25 PM

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    I really needed to here this.
  • January 12, 2011 03:11 PM

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    A very inspiring and thought provoking article. Enjoyed reading it. For some reason I didn't get my In Touch this month or I mispaced it. Thanks for sharing.
  • January 12, 2011 03:08 PM

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    I am in the wilderness Lord, show me which way to go
  • January 06, 2011 11:42 PM

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    This is so true during the wilderness times, my sister and I are just discussing the chaos and knowing that God is preparing us for the better things He has for us, we must just hold out.
  • January 06, 2011 09:21 PM

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    Great article, thanks for provide from God the consolation and hope that comes with the message inside. God Bless you.
  • January 04, 2011 11:26 PM

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    so true
  • January 04, 2011 10:36 AM

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    What an inspiring teaching. Thank you.
  • January 03, 2011 04:08 PM

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    This is a very heart felt article. It ministered to my heart, spirit and mind, thank you for this post. God bless you!!!!!!!!

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